I Created The Life Of My Wildest Dreams You Can Too I believe that most people would love to change and improve at least one area of their lives. I was the exception. I wanted to improve and drastically change every area of my life. I tried everything for ten years to do just that. Although I made improvements by degree, I couldn’t lift myself out of the worst thing of all - mediocrity. One day something just snapped inside me. I couldn’t live this life any longer, I decided I was changing everything. I gave up a very profitable cleaning business, moved to Southern California, left all my friends and family, and eventually became a writer. My life became very exciting for a whole host of reasons. Not the least of which was that I had no money or idea of a career for the first 6 month’s. I knew I had to learn to overcome fear, worry, and doubt. Those feelings were the old me, and that me was gone forever. I needed to create a habit of trusting in the process and the flow of my life. I took hold of my reins and created the magnificent life of my dreams, in fact, far, far, beyond my dreams. Included in this special report are four of the simple steps I took in the creation of my dream life. You too can realize any and all of your dreams and desires. Whatever you can dream, you can do, and you can be. It is that simple. So Dream Big, you are deserving of the greatness that is being born within you right now. Choose 1 at a time to incorporate into your daily routine. Pick the one that most excites you so you’ll stick with it. Layer one idea on top of the other until you have integrated them all into the core of your very being. Commit to mastering these simple steps and you’ll hit your mark every time! Before you know it, you’ll be it. It is that simple. Now please don’t confuse simple with easy. Who you are and what you are doing now is easiest. Your ways and behaviors have become habitual and automatic. When you are changing anything it takes some work but most important a commitment to guide your thoughts to the new (feeling good) way of thinking. In time this new way of thinking and being will become easiest, habitual and automatic, like breathing. Until that happens give yourself a break and gently ease into this new you. Give it some time and understand one of your greatest tools is your beautiful mind and the thought’s that inhabit it. Discipline yourself to think ‘rightly’ feeling good and creating anything you desire. Most importantly….. Have Fun! Fun is the stuffing of life. Fun should be in everything you do, it’s a state of mind rather than a location or action. I’ve emphasized the word ‘feeling’ and ‘feel’ because the more you can feel your desires and get them on an emotional level it speeds up the desires arrival into your reality. FEEL GRATEFUL and THANKFUL Gratitude is an absolute in the creation of the magnificent new you. You must ‘feel’ grateful for everything you now have, so you can receive more abundance (in all areas) of your life. You can’t bring abundance in your life by harboring the feelings of lack. ‘Feeling’ lack brings you more lack. Example…..Even if you don’t have your dream career right now, you can be grateful you have a job that pays your bills. If you don’t have a mate yet, you can be grateful you have a good friend or family member to rely on. If you aren’t the weight you prefer, you can be thankful you have plenty to eat knowing many people in the world do not, and that at any time you make a firm decision to lose the weight – you will!. Find the reasons to be thankful, feel thankful in your heart for all your blessings - often. Learn to switch to a mode of gratitude like flipping a light switch to the on position and watch your life transform before your eyes. See, there is another reason to feel grateful, if you have eyes to see, you are enormously blessed. Can you imagine a life without sight? No, and you wouldn’t want to. The point is…… to realize you have so many blessings, countless blessings indeed. It is not enough to be grateful once a week and then think that will cover it. Gratitude and thankfulness need to be thought of many times a day, like breathing. Can you live on one breath a week? Finally…. Make a gratitude list and look at it every day at least once. Preferably in the morning and before you go to sleep. As you read each item on your list, ‘feel’ in your heart thankful for the abundance you have. Do not think of what you don’t have, give it NO thought at all. That would be thinking of lack and this is an exercise in abundance. JOY and HAPPINESS As you go through your day notice what makes you feel Joy and Happiness. These feelings are indicators that these things are right for you to be doing. We may feel we have to still do some things that we don’t prefer (for now) such as a certain job (and be grateful we have a job), however we can rest assured this is temporary. Example…..We can also realize and use reason to see that ‘feeling’ Joy and Happiness right now is a choice we have the right to make. We can at this moment ‘feel’ Happy and Joyous by smiling, thinking of something funny, or remembering our dreams and keeping the vision of those dreams in front of us. Use visualization to keep your dreams alive and in front of you. Visualize ONLY what you are desiring, don’t give even one precious thought to what you do not want. Keep your eyes on the ball - the ball being your dream. Desire is a form of prayer. Simply put forth an honest desire into your heart and know it will manifest into your reality. Whether you desire peace, love, happiness, a fun career, plenty of money, great health, a new car or home, there are no limits except the limits you impose on yourself. Imagine these as if they were already yours now, ‘feel’ what it ‘feels’ like to be them, and live them now. INTEND IT INTO EXISTENCE Our intentions drive everything we are and do. Even if we aren’t aware of some of our intentions. The Universe rearranges our reality to bring our intentions to fruition. Intentions are the seeds in the garden, once planted, even if forgotten, they’ll eventually pop up both wanted or unwanted. Examine and become clear and detailed about what your intentions are. Transfer those intentions into ‘feelings’ and then let the Universe do it’s job, the growing of the seeds you planted with your intentions. Example…. You may say you are seeking a peaceful, harmonious life. You may search diligently for the ways of peace and harmony. You may even be doing many of the right things that could lead to growth. Yet you do not grow, you do not change, you do not feel peace or harmony and may even feel discouraged as time goes on, why? This is because if your underlying intention is drama and getting attention for example, then becoming peaceful and harmonious are not in line with this deep and true intention of drama. Creating the problems which will allow your true intentions of drama and getting attention will continue to manifest as your reality. Perhaps illness will also manifest into your reality as a result of all the turmoil within you. This is still within your original intention as illness will draw all sorts of new drama and attention to you. Daydream about your new intentions. See yourself driving that brand new car (as if you were sitting IN the drivers seat looking out). Play a movie with you as the star, there may be a beautiful, loving mate, a new dream home, an exhilarating career, having plenty of money, living in a new city, maybe your on one of your many exotic vacations with great friends and your sexy mate. Remember to be in the movie seeing everything with your own eyes, not watching yourself from another location or from above. Make an ‘intention list’ or a ‘my new life now’ script. Make it look pretty by designing it on your computer. Use the term “I’ve always” or “I am” before everything on your list. I’ve always been wealthy, I’ve always lived the life I’ve imagined, I’ve always been a successful writer, I am very healthy, happy, fun, alive, exciting, beautiful, sexy, etc. PUT YOUR ATTENTION ON YOUR DREAM What you put your attention on - grows. Put your attention only on what you DO want, giving No attention to what you don’t want. This is so important that it bares repeating. Everything you put your attention on will materialize in your life whether you want it or not! EVERYTHING!!! Example…..You don’t have enough money each month to even pay your bills. You are upset and worried about not having enough money at the end of the month to pay your bills. As a result, at the end of the month you once again don’t have enough money to pay your bills. You can insert any and all problems in this scenario. It’s all the same process. What you keep looking at, replaying in your mind, complaining about, worrying about, thinking about, putting your attention on, you keep getting more of as your experience. Example…..You desire to meet your soul mate and have a loving relationship. You think about it all the time. Yet you believe the statistics that tell you that you have a better chance of being hit by lightning then you do of meeting your soul mate. You are worried you won’t ever meet them. Even if you did would they love you? This is defeatist thinking. It will only get you more of what you now have, being alone. Your soul mate is out there and looking for you too. You are not thinking the thoughts that are in alignment with attracting your new mate, so they do not materialize. Think about how wonderful it is to be loved and to love someone so deeply, to have a trust and a bond beyond what most people ever get to experience. ‘Feel’ how incredible it is to have your mate as your best friend and lover. Growing together in harmony and love as a team. We usually put our attention on what we love. We give our garden our attention and it grows healthy, yummy veggies and beautiful fragrant flowers. You pulled out the weeds, fertilized it, and gave it water. You gave it your love. You more than likely had fun tending it too. A final though to ponder….. You have the most awesome computer inside you that exists anywhere – Your Brain ! Your consciousness (you while you’re awake) is the programmer. Your subconscious (you while your sleeping) is the computer with no concept of choice. It simply delivers to the programmer what it was programmed to deliver. Discipline yourself and allow entry into your mind and thoughts only your desires. The uplifting thoughts that help you to realize your genius and awaken your creativity. Stand guard at the door of your thought and refuse entry to the lower thoughts and energies knowing they also will become who you are if entertained long enough. Your subconscious has no concept of right, wrong or indifference. It is a mini Universe right inside you giving flight to everything you give thought to without exception. Live every moment of your life with Love, Peace and Joy and you’ll have it made. Or I should say “YOU will have made it.”